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The caring, interpersonal type. Twos are empathetic, sincere, and warm-hearted. They are friendly, generous, and self-sacrificing, but can also be sentimental, flattering, and people-pleasing. They are well-meaning and driven to be close to others, but can slip into doing things for others in order to be needed. They typically have problems with possessiveness and with acknowledging their own needs. At their Best: unselfish and altruistic, they have unconditional love for others




The powerful, aggressive type. Eights are self-confident, strong, and assertive. Protective, resourceful, straight-talking, and decisive, but can also be ego-centric and domineering. Eights feel they must control their environment, especially people, sometimes becoming confrontational and intimidating. Eights typically have problems with their tempers and with allowing themselves to be vulnerable. At their Best: self-mastering, they use their strength to improve others' lives, becoming heroic, magnanimous, and inspiring.

Comments

validation:

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Cass Paisan: one is "the Helper"
Cass Paisan: the other is "the challenger"
Cass Paisan: LOL
Quake Gibz: hehe
Cass Paisan: one likes to be self-sacrificng for others, gets used and can be martyring
Cass Paisan: "people-pleasing"
Cass Paisan: the other likes to be incontrol, domineering, a natural leader and can be intimidating
Quake Gibz: i can see both of those in you
Cass Paisan: "generous leader"
Cass Paisan: indeed so can I
Cass Paisan: lol
Cass Paisan: I'm tempted to pay for the complete test
Cass Paisan: but I don't think I have $10 on mty card
Cass Paisan: funny how "the helper" will feign weakness in order to guilt people
Cass Paisan: but "the challenger"'s biggest fear is appearing weak
Quake Gibz: yeah thats you.. lol
Cass Paisan: LOL
Cass Paisan: OTOH, I have no complaint with being labelled Altruistic, full of unconditional love AND heroic
Quake Gibz: :-D
Cass Paisan: makes me sound like a crusader for justice! LOL
Cass Paisan: I certinaly would love to be that
Quake Gibz: a paladin?
Cass Paisan: *blush*
Cass Paisan: *dreams happily*
Cass Paisan: *sigh* wouldn't that be wonderful?
Cass Paisan: I should start feeding my paladin personality more
Cass Paisan: been slacking off
Cass Paisan: maybe help my depression
Cass Paisan: hell, maybe that IS my depression
Cass Paisan: need a righteous battle to fight every now and then

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are you both? How is that possible?

I was a Helper. So I should try and be more of an artist and less of a leader. But right now I think I need to suffer and isolate.